Sometimes.... When you break up with people they tend to go crazy...
They tend to call you freaking out and go on there msn even though there is only one person on it. They call you crying and say scary stuff like "This is fucking horse shit!" and "I'll fucking remember this!"
They tend to make you feel like there going to kill you....Or am I just paranoid?
I am sooo scared!!!!!!
posted by Terrible lie @ 7:48 PM
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Did you break up with somebody? Don't worry, as it is common for both sides to get berserk when they just broken up. It'll take time to settle down... anyway, I am confident that both sides can control their emotions! Maybe that person is just throwing his tantrum on MSN because he/she can't find a better medium to 'throw'.
well teddy....considering we broke up like a month ago and he is still pycho about it....it scares me!
you would have to know him to understand...he would scare you too!
Dear dontwasteyourbreath, sorry to hear that from you. Maybe you can seek help from your parents or friends who are very close to you. You can also discuss with me personally via e-mail (terrymunweihao@gmail.com). However, some people can't overcome some harsh facts that easily, like the other partner of your relationship. I think he / she needs some help from people around him. I know that spliting apart is always very heardbreaking.
It's all good Teddy...I just think that he needs anger management! I will add you to my e-mail...
And one more thing! How does a 15 year old have such serious and mature advice? You are very smart for your age...
Dear dontwasteyourbreath, that's what my parents taught me how to manage relationships between me and the other one if we broken up. I once had a very good schoolmate but because of interest differences we broke apart. Of course, he got damn pissed and started to tear, throw and even break my things. Anyway, he some sort of able to control himself now. I've experienced this, so maybe I can help you out. =)
Anger management is not a solution, just a non-chemical suppression exercise. Usually solves nothing. What you've got here is a simple case of Codependance... ppl can't function when a piece of their 'pie' goes missing, and they freak. He just needs some perspective, some answers, and definite direction. Don't think that will make him less mad. You may have really upset him and that can last a lifetime. But for his sake and yours it sounds like he needs to take his energy elsewhere. Just don't pull the "get over it" line out of the hat. If he really cared in the first place, that would just make it worse. Not everybody does. Personally, I like to see someone go psycho. At least then I know they have some semblance of 'real' feelings at all. Better to have something to work with than nothing at all the next time around.
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